Just Jessica: What the Hell Are My Remote People Actually Doing?

11/06/2018

We all have them. Haters. Whether the jabs are little or the jabs are big, jabs are still jabs. The happier we find ourselves, the bigger the jabs often get. New haters will arrive on the scene, haters we never saw coming. Sometimes, our haters come disguised as people that are supposed to love and support us. Haters complain about their lives, the people in them and they often make regular jabs at the happy, confident people around them. They even complain about other people complaining on a

11/02/2018

The term cognitive dissonance is a label only for our inherent desire to keep our attitudes and beliefs in harmony and avoid disharmony (or dissonance). It is in and of itself a simple idea, but the fact is, people will go to great and irrational lengths to avoid this uncomfortable disharmony. My opinion of cognitive dissonance is that it is precisely what keeps people frozen in time, scared to heal, change and grow. It also prevents fun on so many occasions. Cognitive dissonance is an

06/27/2018

Sure, any monkey can be taught what to say or do daily to not cause an obvious ruckus and keep a job. Don't tell her she is pretty. Don't grab his butt. Don't ask him out. Don't sniff her hair like a weirdo. Sit. Stay. Don't shit on the carpet. Except in my subtly named YouTube Video, Grab Her by the Pussy Willow , we aren't talking about the obvious verbal assault. We are talking about an embedded culture that provides an underlying tone and color to everything that is. When this culture is